Competitive Guide 2026 · Chapter 23 · Updated July 2026
Remote Raids & Family Etiquette
Remote raid pass habits, lobby manners, and when to trade in person vs remote.
Kid-friendly
Kid version: Join remote raids quickly, bring good counters, and do not leave friends hanging at the last second.
Metas and raid DPS change with updates. Verify live teams on Pokebattler and PvP ranks on PvPoke before spending Stardust or XL candy.
Remote Raids & Family Etiquette
Remote raid pass basics
- **One invite** per pass — join a friend's lobby from anywhere
- **Friendship requirement** — must be friends in GO (Great Friends+ for some features)
- **Daily limit** — watch Niantic's current cap (changes with events)
**Family rule:** Parents hold passes for **legendary weekends**; kids ping in Family Trades or text when a lobby opens — no spam invites to strangers.
Lobby etiquette (kids + adults)
1. **Accept invites promptly** — lobbies expire in ~90 seconds 2. **Bring counters** — check Companion raid page before joining 3. **Remote players stay in** — do not leave at 10 seconds if you committed a pass 4. **One lobby at a time** — do not join two remote raids you cannot finish 5. **Thank in chat** — quick "ty" keeps friends sending invites
Best Friends bonus reminder
**Best Friends** get **+10% damage** in raids together. Stack with **same-team friends** when possible. See **Best Friends & Lucky Friends** for leveling steps.
Remote trade vs meet up
| Situation | Prefer | |-----------|--------| | Lucky legendary, high Stardust cost | **In person** if possible | | Community Day shiny swap | Either — note in proposal | | Costume / special form | **Verify** on trade screen | | Cross-household cousins | Remote trade if Ultra Friends+ |
Always **accept the proposal in Companion first** so everyone agrees before spending Stardust.
Team Rocket on raid day
If grunts spawn during a raid hour, **finish the raid lobby first** — do not ghost remote hosts for a grunt unless everyone agreed.
See **Team GO Rocket — Grunt Identification** and **Rocket Leaders & Giovanni** for prep.
